It’s Moving Time, Again

York England

York, England

Yep, you heard it right.  In an unexpected turn of events, we’ll be moving again in less than two weeks!

This time, instead of moving a few thousand miles to another continent, we’re just moving about 6 miles down the road.  Toward the end of October, Mrs. DTG received a call from the base housing office offering us a house on base.  It was a 4 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom in a coveted section of base housing.

The catch, we had to make our decision to accept or reject the offer within 24 hours!  With nothing to lose, we decided to look at the house and it really blew us away.  It felt so spacious and open!  This could be partially due to living in a British house the last 15 months where all the spaces are very narrow, cramped, and slightly awkward.  And the storage space – there were actually cabinets in the bathrooms!

Best yet, the house is about 100 yards from our two younger kids’ elementary school and a 3-minute bike ride from our oldest’s school.  This will save them loads of time over riding the bus to and from school like they currently do.  Not to mention, Mrs. DTG will be less than a mile from her clinic and I’ll be even closer to my teaching job.

Now don’t get me wrong, we really enjoyed living off base for the first part of our tour and felt like we built connections in the local community, especially with me playing for the local rugby club and our daughter attending British Reception (similar to US kindergarten, but for pre-K age kids) last year.

Still, after weighing all the pros and cons, we felt being on base would make our lives a lot easier and decided to accept their offer.  During the first week of December, we’ll be making our 5th move in the last 12 years.  Fortunately, this has given us a lot of practice and we’re getting good at it!

But first, we’re off to Paris for Thanksgiving!  We’ve been traveling like crazy the last few months and will be sharing some of our adventures soon.

Our Top Tip for Moving with Kids


Nottingham Castle

Nottingham, England

We’re right in the thick of the U.S. military PCS (permanent change of station) season.  This means that military families all over the globe are packing their belongings and heading out to new and sometimes familiar destinations.

We were in their shoes last year, prepping for our move from Texas across the pond to England.

For most people, this is a crazy way to live.  But we couldn’t imagine it any other way.  We’ve become accustomed to and comfortable with moving every 3–4 years.  In fact, we look forward to and fully embrace each move.

So why do many find this lifestyle to be so bizarre? Continue reading

Is a Mediterranean Cruise Worth It?

Palma Cruise Ship

Palma de Mallorca, Spain

It’s been 10 days since we returned from Italy and things are finally getting back to normal… at least for me.

Mrs. DTG went back to work the day after we returned and the boys went back to school the day after that.  Our daughter was off of school last week and we also had a family visitor in town.

Now, the house has returned to the quiet I’ve grown accustomed to.

In all, we had a great family vacation.  Fortunately the kids’ school schedules lined up and we were able to spend nine days traveling around the western Mediterranean, the bulk of which was a weeklong cruise around the Italian, French, and Spanish coasts.

Because of its low cost and great itinerary, we chose a Costa cruise out of Savona, Italy, flying into Milan and taking a train down to Savona.  The ship docked in five ports with one full day at sea.  We were in each port for between 9–11 hours, which meant five long, and sometimes rushed, days of sightseeing.

Our ports of call included:

  • Marseille, France
  • Barcelona, Spain
  • Palma de Mallorca, Spain
  • Civitavecchia (Rome), Italy
  • La Spezia, Italy

I won’t go into detail about each place, but instead will outline some highlights and disappointments of our trip.  We didn’t do a ton of research on each destination beforehand.  I prefer to go freestyle and just wing it.


    • Spain: Both Barcelona and Palma de Mallorca were beautiful.  I was surprised at how clean and open Barcelona felt for being a relatively large city.  Palma de Mallorca is in a class of its own.  It’s easily one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever visited.
Cathedral in Palma

Cathedral of Santa Maria of Palma (La Seu)

    • Cinque Terre: While in La Spezia, we took a short train ride up to Cinque Terre, a series of five picturesque villages along the Italian coastline.  Walking through those towns felt like being in a postcard.
Manarola Cinque Terre

Manarola, Cinque Terre, Italy

Vernazza Cinque Terre

Vernazza, Cinque Terre, Italy

    • Cathedrals: Pictures do not give you a true appreciation for the size of some of these cathedrals.  Both the Duomo di Milano (Milan) and the Sagrada Familia (Barcelona) are absolutely massive.  We didn’t get a chance to go inside Sagrada Familia, but the Duomo di Milano seemed to go on forever.  Extremely impressive.  The other day, I went by a cathedral near our house that now looks tiny in comparison.
Duomo di Milano

Duomo di Milano

Sagrada Familia Barcelona

Sagrada Familia – to give you an idea of its size, a red double decker bus is parked right in front of the cathedral

  • Daily Step Count: I walked over 32,000 steps in Barcelona alone, a personal record!  Other days averaged closer to 20,000.  We definitely worked off whatever calories we consumed on the ship!


    • Rome: Don’t get me wrong, I’m stoked we got to see the Coliseum, Pantheon, and other ancient Roman sites, but I did not care for the overall vibe of Rome.  It was just too hectic and not my style.  We’re glad we left the kids at the Kids Club on the ship that day.  It would’ve been chaos with them.  We didn’t have enough time to go inside Vatican City, though we saw Saint Peter’s Basilica from the outside, and that’s probably the only reason I’d want to return to Rome.
Coliseum Rome


  • Breakfast: I love breakfast and was looking forward to chowing down on some freshly made omelets.  But being an Italian cruise, the buffet-style breakfast only had breads, pastries, and fruits – a continental breakfast.  If you wanted a hot breakfast with eggs, sausage, bacon, etc., you needed to go down to the restaurant.  This wasn’t a huge deal, but it was a bit of a surprise the first morning and the system they had in place was a bit of a cluster.  After that, we adjusted and it was fine.
  • No free water at dinner: Along the same lines as the previous comment, water was not provided in the restaurant during dinner (it was available at the buffet, just not the restaurant).  If you wanted to drink something with your meal, which I presume most people did, you had to buy it.  The €3 for a bottle of water each night wasn’t a deal breaker but more of an irritant, especially the first evening.

Expectations management sums up our disappointments pretty well.  If you know what you’re getting into ahead of time, it’s no big deal.  The initial surprise is what gets you.

Prior to this, we’d be on at least a half a dozen or so cruises, primarily to the Caribbean and once to New England/Canada.  As you’d expect, those all had a distinctly American vibe.  This cruise, on the other hand, was a complete cultural immersion.  All announcements were made in four languages (Italian, English, Spanish, and German) and sometimes a fifth (French).  It was amazing listening to the cruise director and other crew members switch from one language to another without missing a beat.

For the five of us, we spent roughly $2,500 over the nine-day trip.  This includes airfare, the cruise itself, one night at a hotel, train tickets, pizza, gelato, and other miscellaneous costs.   In total, we visited nine cities in three countries.  Aside from a cold and rainy day in Marseille, the weather was perfect.  The main downside, it was exhausting!

At the end of the day, was the trip worth it?  You better believe it.

A New Job and Vacation Prep

River in Cambridge

Have you ever looked forward to something for so long that when the time finally arrives, you almost can’t believe it?

That’s how we feel right now.  With the kids off of school next week, we’re heading out on a much anticipated vacation.

On Friday morning, we’ll arrive in Milan for a Mediterranean cruise that’ll introduce us to parts of Italy, France, and Spain.  The itinerary is truly amazing.  If you follow us on Twitter, be on the lookout for pictures over the next couple weeks.

Despite my best intentions, my posting schedule continues to be erratic as I seem to miss a post every other week.  Every day I’m surprised at how busy I am not working, in the traditional sense. Continue reading

What’s Next for Ditching the Daily Grind?


First off, to our U.S. readers, we’d like to wish you all an early Happy Thanksgiving from the UK.  As a family, we’ve been blessed and have a lot to be thankful for.  This is our first Thanksgiving since leaving the states.  We appreciate the family members who have already made the effort to visit us all the way across the pond!

That being said, there’s no doubt the last few months have brought a whirlwind of change into our lives.  Mrs. DTG graduated from physical therapy school.  I quit my full-time job.  We moved from Texas to England.  We became a one car family.  Our daughter started school.  The list goes on and on.

During all this chaos, I did a lot of thinking.  I wondered what  I would do now that Continue reading